AnswerThe first place to start is finding a lawyer who can help find and open closed records. You may also try hiring a private investigator who may be able to help.

Answerthe pros of open adoption, you will be able to see your child and keep in touch with your child, the cons it may hurt not to be with your child, maybe you will have feeling of jealousy or regret.

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